Being single can mean pure bliss for some and a lonely road for others. Regardless of perspective, flying solo comes with its fair share of challenges:
- Dealing with uncomfortable questions from well-meaning relatives and friends.
- Facing assumptions about your sexuality.
- Ignoring hushed whispers and unsolicited advice.
- Navigating a world seemingly designed for couples.
There’s no denying that being in a relationship has its perks. Love, companionship, and having a built-in plus-one for every event are great benefits. But there are also plenty of reasons why I love being single. Some of them might sound selfish, but that’s exactly the point—being single is about personal freedom.
The Perks of Being Single
- Absolute Freedom: When you're single, you can do whatever you want, whenever you want—no need to check in with anyone.
- Self-Accountability: The only person you truly answer to is yourself (okay, maybe society at large, but that’s a different story).
- No Obligations to Remember Special Dates: Birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day—if it’s not yours, it’s not your problem.
- New Experiences Feel Fresh: Being single allows you to experience life without compromise. Every adventure is truly your own.
But Why Can’t Singles Just Enjoy Their Solitude?
If being single is so great, why do many people still crave relationships? There are a few possible reasons:
- The belief that "the grass is greener on the other side."
- Fear of loneliness and the idea of facing life without a partner.
- The desire for someone to complement what we lack—whether emotionally, socially, or even financially.
- Societal and cultural pressures that make people feel like they need to be in a relationship to be "complete."
Do I Really Love Being Single?
Well… yes and no. While I appreciate the freedom, there are definitely moments when having a partner would make life better. Sometimes, you just need someone to talk to, someone to help you make big decisions, or simply someone to share the little things with. And let’s be real—some games are just meant for two players.
Are you single and loving it? Or do you sometimes wish for a different status? Share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear your perspective!
Like--not having to ask permission or "discuss" my decisions.
ReplyDeleteNot like--walking out to my car after church by myself while everyone else gets into a car with someone else.
I know about the feeling freedom of not asking permission to anybody if we want to do something, but about discussing decisions, there are times when we need support or at least give us some light of things we haven't or missed to consider.
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