The Agony Of Waiting

As I patiently waited for my flight in the airport's departure lounge, the familiar yet dreaded announcement echoed through the speakers. The once-bustling lounge fell into an expectant silence. My flight was delayed. The reason? A late turnaround of the incoming aircraft.

I have never been the kind of person who is habitually late. I won't claim I've never been late, but those instances have been rare. Punctuality has always been important to me, and I firmly believe that being late is not just an inconvenience—it’s a selfish act.

I have often shared this sentiment with my friends and the participants of the training sessions I have conducted. Being late is a sign of disregard for those who arrive on time. It sends a message that other people's time is less valuable than our own. Everyday occurrences such as traffic, unfinished household chores, or poor planning should never be used as justifications for tardiness.

Naturally, I expect the same level of respect from others. If an agreed time is set, I anticipate that people will arrive on or before that time. When my friends arrive late, I find myself in an awkward position, unsure of whether to wait or leave. More often than not, I choose the latter.

I once read an article about British customs regarding punctuality. In Great Britain, important figures are expected to arrive early for official functions, but for social gatherings, a late arrival is considered acceptable—even strategic. The idea of making a "grand entrance" belongs in the realm of social affairs, not formal engagements.

Here in the Philippines, however, we have our own notorious version of time—'Filipino Time'—which has long been synonymous with habitual lateness. It’s an unfortunate stereotype that has persisted for generations. I remain hopeful that one day, Filipino Time will no longer mean arriving late but instead reflect a culture of promptness and respect for time.

Punctuality is more than just a habit; it’s a reflection of discipline, respect, and reliability. While external factors may occasionally be beyond our control, making a conscious effort to be on time is a small but meaningful way to show consideration for others. After all, time is one of the most valuable things we can give—and once lost, it can never be regained.