The Most Squandered Thing On Earth

I hate being late. It’s one of those things I actively try to avoid. That’s not to say I’ve never been late—after all, I’m human, and imperfections are part of the package. But lateness is rare for me, so rare that I honestly can’t recall the last time I was late for a social or official engagement.

However, I’ve come to realize that simply being on time doesn’t necessarily mean I truly value time. When I strive to be punctual, my primary motivation isn’t always the inherent worth of time itself. Rather, it’s about maintaining my personal standard and, more importantly, respecting others by not making them wait. In essence, it’s the principle of reciprocity at work.

The Principle of Reciprocity

"The ethic of reciprocity (also known as the Golden Rule) is an ethical code that states one has a right to just treatment and a responsibility to ensure justice for others. Reciprocity is arguably the most essential basis for the modern concept of human rights, though it has its critics." — [Wikipedia]

As the ancient Greek philosopher Isocrates put it:
"Do not do to others what would anger you if done to you by others."

I don’t like being made to wait unnecessarily, so why would I do that to others? This mindset keeps me accountable for being on time. However, I’ve realized that valuing time extends beyond punctuality—it’s also about managing time well and truly appreciating its significance in our lives.

Why Time Is Our Most Valuable Asset

Many would agree that time is the most valuable resource we have. You can accumulate wealth, own luxurious homes, wear designer clothes, and indulge in the finest cuisines. Yet, without time, none of it means anything. Time is the currency of life—once spent, it’s gone forever.

Perhaps what makes time so precious is that it’s non-renewable. When we waste it, we don’t just lose minutes or hours; we forgo opportunities, memories, and possibilities that could have shaped our lives for the better. The tragic reality is that time is also the most squandered resource on earth. How often do we let distractions steal our hours? How often do we procrastinate, thinking we have unlimited tomorrows?

But time doesn’t wait for anyone.

A Powerful Reminder of Time’s Worth

Consider this thought-provoking passage I came across:
To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.
To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.
To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize the value of ONE DAY, ask a daily wage laborer with children to feed.
To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed their train.
To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.
To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the athlete who won a silver medal at the Olympics.

Make Every Moment Count

Each moment we have is a gift, and how we use it shapes our future. Instead of spending our time mindlessly, let’s be intentional with it. Let’s invest in relationships, pursue personal growth, and chase the dreams that set our hearts on fire.

Treasure every second, and treasure it even more when shared with someone special. After all, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift—that’s why it’s called the present.

What will you do with your time today?

22 Comments

  1. try mo i-ask sa sakin ang value ng 4 years...

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  2. i will never, ever forget that lines from the movie kung fu panda....

    yet time is still the most playful element...

    you have been missed, elyong...

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  3. no doubt about it

    the title says it all

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  4. @Ming Meows, what to you is the value of 4 years?

    @the geek, i missed that line from kung fu panda... i will have to watch it again. thank you geek, i guess somebody took over me in the past month.. and you know who that is... hehehehe..

    @Roy, thanks for visiting.. :)

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  5. Elyong, i haven't heard you for a long time.......I'm glad your back.... nice post liked it! :)

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  6. Anonymous04 May, 2009

    what i hate is wasting my time falling in lines LOL

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  7. hello elyong just dropping by here

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    dont worry the game is so easy just give me 9 songs and thats it
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  9. time is of the essence..

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  10. What is the essence of time? Time travels in a straight line and it will never come back. In life there is no such thing as rehearsal. Kaya gawin mo na ang dapat mong gawin kasi pag hindi mo ito ginawa, sa bandang huli magsisisi ka at sabihin mong "kung maibabalik ko lang ang panahon(time)".

    Nice post my friend.

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  11. naku lagi ako late LOL!

    kainis kasi bakit ang bagal bagal ko mag ayos!hahaha

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  12. hello kuya elyong
    just dropping by here
    have a great weekend
    see yah

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  13. hello juast dropping by po

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  14. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. Am just making my presence felt, my friend.

    Thanks for the insightful post. It is interestingly innovative. May I be so privileged to follow your every post? I have been dropping your EC. Hope you're in the best of health.

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  15. This is an inspiring post about using my time wisely! Thanks, Elyong!

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  16. being late is a sign of disrespect towards others who came on time
    oha
    hehe

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  17. This article is so nice...I'll keep it in mind, try natin iconvert ito from 86,400 seconds to 86,400 pesos (jowk). jijiji

    all of your blogs are brilliant by the way (: keep writing!

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  18. Such a great post! Let's just be stewards of our time. Let's control and not the reverse.

    Your brother from Your Daily Word

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  19. Anonymous18 May, 2009

    who doesn't hate being late?

    pero sanay na sanay na ko sa mga opismeyts kong sobrang tamad.laging late,laging absent.

    ganyan mga locals dito..mga pasaway...

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  20. i hate being late and i hate waiting too.

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  21. just drop by to read your blog.. happy day ahead :)

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