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When I visited a gay friend, I was amused that his uncle is also gay. His uncle was more effeminate than him.During that time, my friend was whining over his break-up with another gay man who happens to be from the province I came from.
His uncle was a bit annoyed of him whining over another gay man. According to him, a gay man should not expect much from a gay to gay relationship. One should be ready when time comes that his gay partner would find another man or worst another gay man (until now I don’t understand why another gay man was worst).
According to his uncle, he never had a relationship with another gay man. All of his relationships involved straight men. Loosing his man for a woman is less painful than loosing a partner to another man or gay man.
Man to man is most likely the most fragile relationship among genders. A gay man is still a man. According to studies, a man is a visual person, easily gets stimulated by what he sees.
I supposed woman to woman relationship is stronger than relationship that involves men. Most, if not all, lesbian relationships that I know lasted longer than man to man.
Relationships that involve men (man-woman, man-man) should go beyond physical attraction. That is the only way, I guess, you can keep the man in your life.
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that is why i am certified single since birth. my longest relationship with opposite sex was only 6 months and the experience was a hell. it needs me super mega extra effort to please her on all aspects. napasubo kasi kapag di ko sya pinatulan, mabubuko ako, hahahah!
ReplyDeletei was with couple of gays (older than me and with money, hahahah!)before whom i met regularly but never consider that we are into relationship.
this time, KARMA. Im getting older, and i dont know if i can find a regular fuck buddy, hahaha!
@MrCens, You're too young to think you're old... and I am glad you're opening up.. hahaha!!
ReplyDeletegood to know that you are a broad-minded person.it's their choice and we have to respect them.
ReplyDelete@flamindevil, we can only be a friend to someone, we are not masters of other people. It's their life to live.
ReplyDeleteHow was your valentines day? hahaha!!
"don't expect much"
ReplyDeletekorek ka dyan. i think we should love unconditionally, and expect nothing in return. yung walang bahid ng pagsisisi
@Ming Meows, when you love someone, you don't need to be reciprocated... but it would be wonderful when it is. But, when someone told you that he/she loves you back, then it should be shown by him/her and it should be felt by you... hehehe, when it is not, that is the time you start to question love.. :) So don't promise love because love is not a promise.. naks..
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